Instead of going with one of the newfangled types of memory foam pillows, go with a classic.
Sorry I'm late.
"Ohh, did we mess up the directions?"
No, no. funny thing. I forgot them. See, I had this Classic Memory Foam Pillow, and I figured it would remember them for me, but talk about a total failure! It didn't remember anything! I rested my head on it and all I got was a soft, comfortable place to put my head. I ended up falling asleep, and when I woke up, I still didn't remember how to get to your place.
Yeah! What a waste, amirite? Some memory foam.